Well, let me give you a few, 30 to be exact; dead give-aways you are dating a Narcissist.If he is what he says he is, it will show over time and he won’t mind waiting.In his past relationships they would roll over and go to sleep but with you it is different.He will point out that how people sleep is an indication of how “connected” they are.

(I was not impressed; I was in jeans because I hadn’t gotten my party clothes on or any makeup, because I wasn’t supposed to be going to a party!

He is arming his arsenal with ammo for later down the road to use against you.

By sharing some of his faults he makes you think he is honest, why would he lie about something insignificant when he was so honest about that? They are seldom alone for long, and will still be in a relationship or just leaving one, they will say the relationship was over long ago but their ex won’t let go, they feel responsible for them etc.

He on the other hand was freshly showered, always wore jeans anyway and had a nice shirt on) I told him I didn’t want to go, I wasn’t dressed for it and he just said I was beautiful as I was and that we wouldn’t stay long he just wanted to say hi to a few buddies.

We ended up staying most of the night and I felt uncomfortable because I was under dressed and he was the life of the party. His description of relationships with family or friends don’t fit what you experience.