HIDE THE SILVER Yes, try online dating again, and yes, be open about your health issues.Obviously, don’t go into TMI territory, but mention.Just because you are ill doesn’t mean you are unattractive or that you have nothing to offer. Get to a therapist, talk about your concerns, see if an antidepressant is in order.If you can turn your mood around you will be a much happier, and, by extension, a much more attractive, person.Maybe you could find some friends who are going through similar difficulties, and who knows, maybe that could lead you somewhere you never expected. Your illness does not define you; it may add certain elements to a relationship that would not be there otherwise, but if you gain confidence in yourself first, you will be better equipped to present your illness in a more natural manner to potential partners.

TWOCENTDONATION I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through.

I love him and honestly there’s no one else I can picture myself with.

JPCOFFEE You need to get your head right and stop focusing so fully on your misery before you can possibly project a positive outlook to prospective partners.

If you give yourself permission to focus on yourself and your health, you’ll get through it.

I understand you might be lonely, so try support groups — but don’t be open only to romantic relationships.