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Self-injurers sometimes use this pain sensation to override painful background chatter that fills their minds.

For example, they may have been traumatized by a rape experience such that they have PTSD symptoms and constantly be replaying that rape in their minds.

So, a painful feeling associated with a traumatic memory might be detached from that memory such that the traumatized person remembers the event as though it happened in a movie; as though it happened to someone else and they were just watching it unfold, numb to the experience.

We're all familiar with the idea that it is painful to experience pain sensations.

This basic understanding is not often there when people are confronted with someone who is cutting or burning or otherwise traumatizing themselves.

People don't have good reference points to use so as to understand what motivates self-injury or what people who self-injure are trying to accomplish.

That acts of self-injury are so often bloody and horrifying that it makes it harder for people to be thoughtful about what these acts mean.

There is a tendency to panic when you see someone you care about bleeding from self-inflicted wounds, or covered with scars.

It can be because what they experience inside their minds is overwhelming to them (due to trauma or abuse) that words can't do justice.

An act of self-injury which might make sense if understood as a suicide attempt become all the more difficult to comprehend when the self-injurious person denies that they are trying to kill themselves and is telling the truth. What are they trying to accomplish when they harm themselves?

The following list of 6 motivations seems to cover most of the common scenarios that people who self-injure describe.

What people may not realize is that it is also painful to not feel anything.

Dissociated people who feel largely emotionally numb are often in great pain of a sort.




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